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The Freedom Not to Have It All Figured Out

Our latest edition of The God Journey entitled The Freedom Not To Have It All Figured Out has just been posted on our sister website thegodjourney.com.

As Wayne and Brad respond to a recent flood of reader comments and letters, they wander into a discussion about the challenge of living in Jesus without having all the details figured out or having the results of our circumstances guaranteed. Our safety is not found in our plans being fulfilled but in our growing friendship with Jesus. When our confidence is vested in him alone we will be able to navigate the ruggedness and uncertainty of the journey with his wisdom and grace.

If you’d like to post comments or questions about this show, please do so on the God Journey Blog so that others can read them there as well. Thanks! I know it is sometimes easier to respond here, but then others on that website don’t get to interact with your comments or questions. Thanks!

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Letting Grace Complete Its Work

Joshua from Virginia wrote in response to my recent Breaking Free blog, show how that process has not been easy for him. I love the issue he raised and how he responded to what I wrote. Grace is not something we get for a day or two, it’s something we need for life. We will stumble and fall but as you can see in this exchange, God transforms us faster when we keep relishing grace, not as we stew in condemnation.

I read the article, Breaking Free, and it kind of broke my heart. Why? Well, Wayne, I’ve written that letter before (the letter from the guy who’s in the early stages of getting free); I’ve felt that relief; and now I’m back where I was so many times before: metaphorically eating chocolate-covered dung (i.e. sinning).

It’s a nearly unbearable heartache to go through this again. I mean, I know I have nowhere else to turn but Jesus, but I hate the thought that I’ll have another spiritual catharsis, write you a letter like that guy did, and then be spiritually sick again in another four or five months. Can you offer any words of encouragement? I feel broken and down – and the kind of irritating thing is I probably will not feel so bad in a couple of hours – then I’ll probably do something stupid again later on today and wonder whether I’ll ever have a stable Christian life. This is not healthy.

Here’s how I responded to him: This journey can be complicated some times, can’t it? I’m sorry you’ve gotten sidetracked again somehow, but anyone on this journey knows what that is like. Yes, it seems we make great headway for a season, then find ourselves marooned again on our own self-pleasure and wonder what it is all about.

The letter you read is not a momentary catharsis. I am in touch with the man who wrote it and some wonderful things are going on in his life that I’m certain will bear fruit years down the line. But I guess time will tell us for sure. One thing I know is that this growing in Christ often has times of fits and starts and distractions and falls and the people who find freedom and fruitfulness are the ones who keep getting back up, going to God accepting his forgiveness and drawing near 40 times a day if need be.

It seems guilt might be overriding you in failure. It makes you feel bad for a while, then lets you up and then slaps you down again. That’s pretty consistent. Somehow God needs to make it real for you that he is your partner in sorting out this bondage, not your critic and judge waiting for you to get it right. Invite him in, even at the moment of failure and let him do what he needs to do in you to set you free.

He’s really good at this; we are not. He just wants you to get to the end of yourself, so you won’t keep trying to do what only he can do. I don’t know anything more encouraging than that!!!!

You go, Bro! This is what the journey is like at times. Discouragement only ensures the cycle. Receiving his affection at the place of our brokenness is what breaks it. I’m praying for the latter in your case…

I loved what he wrote back:

I want to thank you for that encouraging email. The grace with which you communicate gives me hope that the promised rest discussed in Hebrews really can be experienced here on this earth. Wayne, thank you for caring about the people who come to your website for clarity and relief; thank you for taking our emails seriously – and not taking yourself so seriously. I know you don’t have all the answers, but your understanding of the love of Christ encourages me to draw near to Him, even in my brokenness.

I’m going to get back up and trust Jesus. I’m going to trust that He’s not just a nice one of us, that His grace truly is sufficient. I’ve been believing in an insufficient grace lately – a grace that stands aloof, arms crossed, wondering when I’m going to pull myself together. That’s just not true. Thank you for being a gasp of fresh air for an oxygen-deprived mind.

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The Fountain of Fellowship

This was posted on the Lifestream List the other day and I thought it was a fabulous reminder about what fellowship is really all about and I also think it is the best way to spill into relationships with others. The author is Lynette from New Zealand. Sara and I spent some time last summer with her, her husband, and their two children in Wellington. She hosts Unveiling where she posts some wonderful articles encouraging people to a deeper life in ther reality of Christ.

Someone had just shared how difficult it was for them to find fellowship with people on this journey and asked others where they were finding fellowship. Here’s what Lynette wrote:

I just wanted to encourage you with the place Father has you in right now as we’ve been in a very similar place and it is uncomfortable when our mindsets are in the process of being changed and adjusted! As for who we have fellowshipped with, it was only one person, Christ! And in fellowshipping with “only” Him, we came to see that through Him, we were also in fellowship with all other members of the Body; but not as we’d ever known it!!! John wrote “If we live in the light as He is in the light, we have true fellowship with one another” (1 John 1:7). True fellowship is not something we make happen, but something that is a result of Him and His Life in us! Most of us know that in our heads but experiencing the truth of that is vital! True fellowship is not about the people who are around us, but about who is in us; Life always recognizes Life in another!

So I can see that the place He has you in, that very quiet time, is a very, very special and precious time when He can draw you aside and have your whole attention and teach you about true fellowship with Him! Fellowship doesn’t mean just meeting with others, it means communion and partnership and how many people can we be a partner with? Usually only one! And this One is in partnership with each of us so that we are in partnership/fellowship with many through One! Enjoy your partnership, communion, intimacy (in other words fellowship with Him!

All fellowship flows from the Son. Learn to live in him and you are in fellowship with every member of his body all around the world. That’s the reality of this kingdom. And Jesus is able to connect you with those he needs you you at any given moment and can do that in a variety of ways. We participate in that best when we’re resting in our relationship with him, and miss it most when we’re anxiously trying to make it happen ourselves.

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Tree Town – A Parable For Our Times

By David Hebden* and Wayne Jacobsen
BodyLife • November 2005

There was a town much like any other town, except it had no trees. A disease had wiped them out so long ago that no one living today even remembered they had existed. They had grown accustomed to the barren landscape.

One day a young man went to the library looking for something to relieve his boredom and by apparent chance he came upon the book. The library had been built when the town was new and small, nothing more than a small outpost with a train station. It just so happened that the young man was walking through a dusty section of the library when the noon express train rumbled past vibrating every shelf in the library. The dust stirred and he sneezed as it tickled his nose. And there, sticking out of the bookcase ready to fall to the floor was the book. He reached out to push it back into place, thinking to himself that they should move the library away from the train station for a bit of peace and quiet.

Obviously it was a long-neglected book, which made him curious. He plucked it from the shelf and opened it. There were no pictures, and the pages were old and yellowed. It seemed to be a collection of stories about the life of a gardener. “I may as well have a look at it,” he thought. “I’ve nothing else to do.”

Later that afternoon as he sat outside his home sipping a cool drink in the shade of his porch he began leafing through the book and came across a chapter about trees. This fascinated him, since he had only heard of trees and had never seen a real tree. He knew what wood was, but it always came on the delivery train, not from trees.

As he read he became even more excited about trees and what they provided. Why they make shade and hold delicious fruit to be eaten! They offer windbreaks from the winter storms, and fuel for heat when they grew old and tired. “What a wonderful thing trees must be! Wouldn’t it be great if we had some around here?”

As the days passed he grew more excited and began to talk to his friends about the book and the trees it described. Soon he found others who had heard about trees and one or two who had actually seen them from a distance. The excitement grew in the town as people wanted to have some trees. A town meeting was held and the mayor asked the young man to read about trees from the book. A vote was called and the citizens decided to build some trees. Soon the quiet town was a hive of activity. Committees were formed to design and build the trees, to import the lumber and even to gather the fruit.

Soon trees began to spring up everywhere in that small town. Well, at least what they thought were trees! They stayed as true to the book as they could. For roots they dug holes and buried old rope because they sounded closer to roots than anything else they had. They nailed these roots into the large timbers they imported for tree trunks. They nailed ‘branches’ to the trunks and the ladies cut leaves out of their finest linen, painted them and glued them on the branches. They also gathered fruit and tied them onto the trees so they could pick them whenever they wanted.

Eventually the streets were lined with trees. Though they looked similar at a distance, up close you could see their differences. It seemed that different people had interpreted the section of the book on trees quite differently. The branches jutted out at different angles. The colors of the leaves were different colors and they only used the fruits they thought best.

Visitors came from far and wide to see trees for the first time in their lives and marvel at the hard work it had taken to build so many. By popular vote it was decided to change the towns name from Prairie Town to Treetown. The book that started it all was enshrined in the town hall under glass. A new industry sprang up to satisfy the growing number of visitors. The townspeople set up tours, opened gift-shops and Treetown T-shirts became all the rage in that part of the world.

But as time went by the excitement over the trees faded for many. They grew weary of building and maintaining the trees and wondered why they hung fruit on them at all, insisting that the fruit stayed fresher when stored inside. Some even began to question if these in fact were real trees. The experts – those who had memorized the chapter on trees – quickly attacked those with questions. Of course they are real. Look at all the time and money we’ve spent on them and how many people it drew to their town. Could so many people be so wrong?

And even when the spoiling fruit seemed to make people sick, the people themselves were blamed for not believing that the trees made the fruit better. Soon a law was passed to require that fruit could only be eaten straight from a tree and no one was allowed to store any in their homes anymore. People grew disillusioned and discouraged with the endless work that brought so little return. “We just have to work harder to make it better,” became the refrain of the town fathers.

Most people fell in line afraid that they would be shunned as troublemakers and ridiculed for not putting the town’s prosperity ahead of their own ideas. But there were a few who just couldn’t fit in. They stopped working on the trees and stopped eating their fruit. At first people tried to convince them how wrong they were, pointing to the phenomenal growth of the tree industry in the town. “Why we even send our experts to other cities and they too are building their own trees!” This worked with some, who had grown too tired to fight the status quo and decided it was just easier to fit in.

Those who continued to question the townspeople’s obsession with trees, however, found it difficult to stay. Some of those working on the trees would throw sticks or fruit at them in anger as they passed by. They called them ‘treeless ones’ and would tell them, “If you don’t like our trees you should leave our town. But then you’ll never know the joy only trees can bring.” Then they would look at each other and smile. “It’s for their own good you know. They need the food.” Finally a few moved out of town, rather than endure the continued abuse.

One day the young man who had discovered the book was walking by the resplendent, new city hall that had been built with all the money drawn to Treetown. He sat down on the plaza beneath the trees, gazing at the gilded glass case on the front of the building. Locked inside was the book that had caused so much division. He was heartbroken that what had seemed to hold such promise had caused such trouble, and he cursed the day that he’d pulled the book off of the shelf.

Soon he found a stranger sitting down beside him on the bench. “Are you okay?” the stranger asked. “You don’t look well.”

The young man looked up at the stranger and was captured by the caring look in his eyes. “I once was a ‘treefolk’ but now I am a ‘treeless one’,” sighed the young man. “I thought the trees would bring us great joy, but it all turned out to be more work and trouble.”

“What trees?” the stranger asked.

“Look around,” the young man said pointing to the trees that lined the plaza.

“Good heavens! Are those things what you’re calling trees?” the man exclaimed pointing to the towers of wood pieces, painted linen and apples hanging from string.

“That’s what they are. We built them using a book I found in the library and …”

“Wait a minute,” interjected the stranger. “What was the name of this book?”

“Uhmm… The Gardener and His Garden. It was an autobiography, I think… something like that anyway.”

“Ah, I see. So you have never seen a real tree?” questioned the stranger as he looked around the plaza.

Puzzled the young man looked at his new friend. “Aren’t these real trees? We built them as best we knew.”

“That’s not a tree! Just how much of the book did you read anyway?”

“Well just the section on trees actually. I glanced through the rest of it but it all seemed a bit boring, except the part about trees. We didn’t have any trees at the time and they sounded so incredible.”

Chuckling, the stranger stood up. “Follow me. I think I have some news for you.” Intrigued by the stranger the young man got up and followed him over to the glass case. “So you never really read the book, eh? No wonder this town is so strange.”

“What do you mean, strange?”

“The book was not about gardens or trees, but about the gardener who grows them. Real trees cannot be built; they can only be grown.”

“Grown?”

“Yes, you plant seeds in the ground, keep them watered and they will spring up into a tree that will really bear fruit.”

“Trees grow?” the young man sighed in shock. He’d never heard of such a thing. “I thought you had to build them?”

“I know my friend, but you have never seen a real tree. They cannot be built no matter how clear the description or skilled the craftsman. You can only grow them. If you had read the whole book you would have known that. You would have gotten to know the gardener and how he does his work to make beautiful trees out of the smallest seeds. There were even some seeds glued to the back of the cover so that you could plant them and watch them grow. Didn’t you see them?”

The young man had a very sick feeling in his stomach. “There were some little, round specks of some kind.”

“That’s them.”

“I thought they were just specks of dirt and cleaned them out before we enshrined the book.”

“Only those who would have taken time to read the book and get to know the gardener would have recognized them as seeds, since they were so small and look so insignificant.”

“I guess I’ve made a real mess of things.”

“Messes can be fixed,” said the stranger.

“But I’ve thrown out the seeds and now I can’t even read the parts about the Gardener.”

“Sure you can,” said the stranger, pulling a copy of the book out of his back pocket and handing it to the young man. “You see I know the Gardener who wrote this book.”

The young man took the book in his hands and his face lit up with a smile. “You do?”

“He’s my father, and I’d be happy to show you everything you need to know about him.”

“That would great!” Then flipping open the book he ran his hands across the inside of the back of the cover. “They’re here!”

“That they are! Now that you know what they’re for, let’s go plant them and watch what happens!”

“A real tree? Won’t the others be surprised!”

“That they will, my friend. That they will…”

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*David Hebden of Vancouver Island, BC helped write the last article in BodyLife and first wrote the tale that became Treetown.

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Satanists in South Africa and Voodo in Ghana

Opening my email every day is an adventure. I’m want to share with you two of them I received yesterday from brothers in Africa because they give us an incredible perspective of what God is doing elsewhere in the world. The first is from South Africa and some people I stayed with one weekend in August. I met the woman in this report. She had been born and raised in a satanist cult as a breeder of human sacrifices and escaped a couple of years ago and became a follower of Jesus. But they never let go easily of those they claim as theirs:

This morning, our sister was traveling along when she was forced to stop and was “attacked” by a couple of people who have connections with the satanists. As they got into the vehicle, she cried out to Jesus to protect her and put her to sleep to save her from the trauma of the incident. She said an army of angelic beings descended and when she awoke she had a handcuff tightly around her wrist but she was not harmed in any other way. The whole vehicle was filled with the very powerful aroma of Jesus, which so often accompanies his visitation in our lives—it could still be smelled in the vehicle many hours later. It is clear that the angels saved her from harm and drove her attackers away. It is so encouraging to live day-by-day in the presence of the supernatural working God who powerfully delivers His children from the literal attacks of the enemy.

She went to our brother-in-law, who cut the handcuff off. She incurred some bruising from this. It is wonderful to see the church of Jesus working together in the work of the kingdom. Then this sister, at my brother-in-law’s request, prayed for a man who was mightily delivered from demonic possession and oppression, when Jesus supernaturally revealed to her the source of his problem. There is still a road to be walked as Jesus revealed that there were problems back at his home. Continue to pray for us – we know that there is more to come as God opens doors. We have again been humbled by the grace of God. I have been praying this whole week for breakthrough and just want more – come, Lord Jesus, come!

This email came from a brother in Ghana in a response to my Jake Colsen site:

Things are progressing here in Ghana with us, and God is opening doors and opportunities for us to minister the gospel to others in the villages here. At this moment, we have 6 house churches in Volta Region here in Ghana. Almost all of these churches were planted through our efforts. There are other remote villages that the Lord have placed desires on our heart to go and help establish house churches there. Please pray that the Lord will make this to come to pass.

There is one passage of Scripture that God continue to speak to my heart. It is from Romans 10:13-15 which reads, “For anyone who calls on the name of the Lord will be saved. But how can they call on Him to save them unless they believe in Him? And how can they believe in Him if they have never heard about Him? And how can they hear about Him unless someone tells them? The Lord is placing more burden in our hearts to go to various places and share the gospel. Such a burden is on my heart more and more lately for the whole world to hear the Gospel. My soul cries because I know that there are so many souls that are not saved.

Somewhere around here there have been killings in the night. Last week, a man was killed and dumped in the sea. At least not less than three people included a pregnant woman had been killed since last week. This act is usually attributed to Voodooist fishermen who use human blood sacrifices to get a lot of fishes. And evidently, last week market day on Thursday there were a lot of big fishes caught by the fishermen, such that we have never seen since our stay here in Ghana. Everywhere in the market was full with fishes! And it was sold at a very cheaper prices! Many immediate locals that were aware of the killings and the acts of the fishermen refuses to buy the fishes, but a lot of people also buy the fishes.

This is one of the terrible things that happen frequently over here. More so, as the end of the year approaches, a lot of people that belongs to cult and traditional evil groups usually uses human beings for rituals and sacrifices to their gods. I just want you to be aware of this things, I think this may sounds strange to you. Well, our God continue to be our shield from the evil ones. Please pray that the Lord would grant us wisdom and favor as we seek to spread the good news of Jesus Christ to those around us. May the peace of God continue to dwell within your hearts; may you forever be strengthened in His might; and may the Holy Spirit make a straight path for you. Extend our greetings, love and thanks to your family and all the brethren there. Please write when you are able as we long to hear from you. Alfred & the brethren here

I’m sure your prayers would be appreciated for both of these groups of brothers and sisters…

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Barna Revolution

Our latest edition of The God Journey entitled Barna’s Revolution has just been posted on our sister website thegodjourney.com.

Is there a revolution afoot in the body of Christ. George Barna seems to think so and in his latest book, Revolution, he describes a large and growing group of committed Christians who have given up on the traditional congregational model of Christianity. And instead of calling this an unhealthy trend that needs to be reversed, he embraces it as a movement that will in the next 20 years radically alter what we call church. Wayne and Brad examine the contents and conclusions of his book, recognizing both the encouragement it can provide for those thinking outside the box, and the dangers it offers to reorganize something in human terms, that only God can accomplish.

If you’d like to post comments or questions about this show, please do so on the God Journey Blog so that others can read them there as well. Thanks! I know it is sometimes easier to respond here, but then others on that website don’t get to interact with your comments or questions. Thanks!

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Perspective

Perspective

Those of us who live in the developed west have such a skewed view of the world and its reality. I find lists like this to be extremely helpful in seeing things more the way God does, than our own national interests ever let us do.

If you could shrink the earth’s population to a village of precisely 100 people, with all the existing human ratios remaining the same, there would be:

  • 57 Asians

  • 21 Europeans

  • 14 from the Western Hemisphere

  • 8 African

  • 6 people would possess 59% of the entire world’s wealth and all 6 would be from the United States.

  • 80 would live in substandard housing

  • 70 would be unable to read

  • 50 would suffer from malnutrition

  • 1 would be near death

  • 1 would be near birth

  • 1 (yes, only 1) would have a college education

  • 1 would own a computer

One of the things that astounded me while touring the Apartheid Museum in South Africa was how 20% of the population could actively discriminate and oppress the other 80% in their own land. They had all the wealth, health care and benefits while people across the street had virtually nothing.

Look at these statistics again. How is that not true now of those of us who have adequate (dare we say abundant) housing, education and health care? How would God have us live financially in a world so devastated by need and where resources are distributed so unfairly? What are our responsibilities help others who do not have the advantages we do? Surely our world is horribly out of synch with the heart of the Creator, and what a great day it will be when he comes to set right all that has tormented the people he loves.

I know this is an uncomfortable perspective for us (see yesterday’s blog), but sometimes that’s good exactly what will bring us perspective. I don’t share it to provoke guilt, which would be worthless anyway. But in view of all that the Scriptures teach about looking out for the poor and oppressed, this might be a perspective we desperately need as we pray and listen to Father’s heart and see how he would have us to live in the world with generosity toward others.

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Afraid of the Light

One of the lists I subscribe to on the Internet is the Daily Dig, from the Bruderhof communities. It offers a thought-provoking quote every day and most of them are incredible. I got this one today. Can you imagine Plato sharing something so brilliant?

Afraid of the Light?

Plato

One can easily understand a child who is afraid of the dark. The real tragedy of life is when grown men and women are
afraid of the light.

As I read that this morning, I thought back through the Gospels and how many people came face to face with the light of God in the glory of the Son. some embraced that light and all it would reveal in them. Others stole back into the shadows not willing to see God for who he really is, nor to comprehend his work in them. The Pharisees refused to answer Jesus’ question about John’s authority because they were unwilling to face the anger of the crowd. Yet, Zaccheus embraced it even when his thievery would be clear to all.

Isn’t it incredibly odd that we find more comfort in the dark, where our illusions can live, rather than love the light and whatever it might reveal? I even think many theological arguments are ways to spin the darkness rather than come face to face with God. But when this God is your loving father, there is nothing left to fear, even our temptations and failures.

The test of discipleship is not how much we can keep up with all the disciplines nor all that we think we can do for God. The real test of discipleship is loving the light enough to keep crawling into it against our inclination to retreat back into the fake safety of the darkness.

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Children Unplugged – The Sequel!

Our latest edition of The God Journey entitled Children Unplugged—The Squel has just been posted on our sister website thegodjourney.com.

They couldn’t resist! Brad and Wayne had so much feedback from their previous podcast on being involved with children outside the box, that they wanted to share some of it with you and continue the dialog. As you will see, this is not just an issue for parents, but for all of Father’s family. Responding to children as a vital part of our lives and our engagement with the body will not only enrich them, but ourselves as well.

If you’d like to post comments or questions about this show, please do so on the God Journey Blog so that others can read them there as well. Thanks! I know it is sometimes easier to respond here, but then others on that website don’t get to interact with your comments or questions. Thanks!

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Keeping Up With My Life in Him

In response to a recent blog entry, I got a comment from Chris. He asked, Wayne, I was reading the “sorry” post on your blog the other day and I was just curious what you do to “keep up with your life in Him”?

I thought that was a great question, so I took a stab at an answer. Maybe you’ll find it of interest and help answer it for your life as well. Here’s how I answered Chris:

GREAT question!

What I meant by that when I wrote it was that I refuse to give in to the false pressure of deadlines to crowd out the open places in my heart where God makes himself known. I used to be a Type A person, very committed to always getting things done on time even if it exhuasted me. I’m still that way about responsibilities and assignments I am hired to do, but no longer that way about kingdom-related stuff.

For instance, when I started BodyLife we were committed to doing an issue every two months. Now, I do one whenever the time and passion to write something for that publication is there. That means we only did 3 issues in 2005. That was less than I would like, and I know others who want it more often. But I won’t cram my life to the margins any more, because I find that it blinds me to what Father is doing in my life and leaves me too worn out to respond to those spontaneous things Father wants me involved in.

The same is true of my blog. I know you’re supposed to update them often to draw readers to the site. But now I do entries when I have the inspiration and time. Sometimes that’s 3 or 4 in a week. Sometimes that’s none. The same was true of the Jake story. I wanted to do a chapter a month for a year. It turned out to be a chapter every 3-4 months and will take us over 3 years to complete. I know that has frustrated some people, and though I’m sorry for that I refuse to be driven any more by false deadlines.

Ultimately busyness is a great place to hide, from God and ourselves. It gives us an inflated sense of importance and drowns out the still, small voice that invites us to spend some time with him, or connect with another brother or sister that might be incredibly helpful in our day. So for me, “keeping up with my life in him,” means doing what he puts on my heart to do and being still enough to hear that. It means rejecting false expectations from myself and others. And, it means having time to go on walks and tell him what I see going on in me and listening to him. It means spending time reading the Scriptures so I can hear his heartbeat there. It means finding another believer or two to connect with at a heart level be it on the phone or in person. No, I don’t get to all of those things every day, but at least 3-4 times per week I’m taking some significant bits of time to ‘remain in him.’ Those things fuel my passion for him and keep me focused on him throughout the day.

In addition, as much as I can all day, every day, I’m looking and listening to what the Spirit might put on my heart. There are many, many small moments of conversation with God—whether it be on the way to a meeting or going downstairs to get a Diet Coke, pausing before a phone call or after one, or talking to him right at the moment something has freshly come to mind.

It’s not a lot different than the time I carve out with family. Relationships don’t grow without giving them a place. If Sara and I don’t have lots of ‘catch up’ with each other our relationship drifts. We’re focused far less these days on specific routines for that, but making them a real part of our daily lives. That’s where I make time for him too!

How would you answer that question? What do you do to “keep up with your life in him”? You can add your thoughts to the comment section below. You’ll never know how your insights might really encourage someone else.

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